There was an interesting exchange between conservative political commentator S.E. Cupp and Whoopi Goldberg a few days ago on The View. They were arguing over whether or not it's appropriate to suggest to someone that they should "pray over their food" or maybe just even having to see someone praying in public (it wasn't totally clear from the exchange).
If the former, I would certainly agree with Whoopi that it's pretty rude to randomly critique someone for not "praying over their food" and might suggest that people who do that (does this really happen a lot?) should probably mind their own business. It's not likely these people will win anyone over by getting in their faces about it. If someone really wanted to convince another to "pray over their food" - something that Judaism values - it would be significantly more effective to lead such an exemplary life that people will be compelled to wonder "what makes that person so fantastic?" "How can I be more like her?" They will notice, as they get to know the "food praying person" that he or she has a remarkable relationship to and appreciation for food. They may become curious and inquire about the practice.
Or maybe not. But either way, religious people don't do themselves any favors by attempting to guilt people into behaving in ways that they deem fitting and I can't in fact think of a better way to ensure that the person they're trying to "help" will not do what they suggest and will leave the conversation with a bitter taste in their mouths.
Btw - S.E. Cupp is a model atheist - open minded, non-adversarial and extremely accepting of the religious practice of others.
You can see the view of the whole exchange here.
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